“For he that speaketh in an unknown tongue speaketh not unto men, but unto God: for no man understandeth him; howbeit in the spirit he speaketh mysteries.”  
1 Corinthians 14:2

The word of God encourages you to speak in tongues so much; talk to God more than you talk to men, when you talk to God you are participating fully in the spirit, when you talk to men, that participation cannot be assured.
“I thank my God, I speak with tongues more than ye all:”  1 Corinthians 14:18
The basis for his thanksgiving was that he spoke in tongues so much he could confidently tell the whole church, he spoke in tongues more than all of them; and he wasn’t even in their city as at the time of writing!
The Apostle was so successful in fulfilling God’s plan for his life, so much that he knew when he was done on the earth and when he was ready to go!
“I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith: Henceforth there is laid up for me a crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous judge, shall give me at that day: and not to me only, but unto all them also that love his appearing.”  2 Timothy 4:7-8
That was a man who talked to God a lot! Listen, only God has and knows the blueprint of your life, instead of spending time talking or complaining to men, talk to God- get those deep things concerning your future revealed to your spirit as you speak in tongues!
“But God hath revealed them unto us by his Spirit: for the Spirit searcheth all things, yea, the deep things of God.”  1 Corinthians 2:10