“For he that will love life, and see good days, let him refrain his tongue from evil, and his lips that they speak no guile:”  
1Peter 3:10

Jesus came to give us a different kind of life:
“The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.”  John 10:10
The word ‘more abundantly’ also means ‘superior, advantage’; this is a life that is superior to the human life, this is a life that gives you an advantage immediately you receive it!
This is a life that replaces the woes and communications of the old life: ‘some days are good, and some are very bad’, ‘this life is full of tragedies’.
God agreed the human life was not one to have and love, had no assurance of lasting bliss, was antithetical to his living experience as God so he sent Jesus to give us his kind of life enabling us experience the bliss, kingship and joy he experiences and provides eternally.
Living the good life is not just a possibility, it is a purpose of your being born again.
You don’t have to cower in defeat, you don’t have to change your communication to suit your feelings, you don’t have to be promoted today and demoted tomorrow- you have received a life that is the advantage you are looking for!